My Story

          I used to experience low desire, extreme anxiety, and even pain during sex. I sought professional help from both gynecologists and therapists, but they were more uncomfortable talking about sex than I was! I was left feeling broken and like there was nothing that could be done to reclaim my sex life.

          I struggled for years before getting introduced to a sex positive community that taught me how to reclaim my power as a sexual being.

          My own struggles with sex inspired me to devote my life to helping others heal their sexual selves and their intimate relationships. I want to save you years of struggling to feel sexually whole by sharing with you all that I’ve learned, and by helping you claim your sexual power.


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My Credentials


I am a Certified Sex Coach through Dr. Patti Britton’s pioneering Sex Coach training program,  Sex Coach U. This training includes 220 continuing education credits through AASECT, the leading organization for sexologists. I am a member of the World Association of Sex Coaches and the Phi Kappa Phi honor society for recognition of my academic achievement as an undergraduate at Washburn University studying English Literature.



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About Me

Hi, I’m Hillary! I have been partnered for 9 years to my wonderful husband, so I know what it takes to keep a long-term relationship hot! Also, as a practicing polyamorist (someone who has multiple romantic/sexual partners with the knowledge and consent of all parties), I know what it’s like to date in the age of Tinder and OKCupid.

I am very passionate about and committed to changing sexual culture. I envision a world in which everyone is taught how to negotiate boundaries, build consent, and own their yeses and nos.  I envision a world in which people are encouraged to embrace and express their sexuality, no matter the form, within the context of consensual adult relationships.

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